Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Infidelity Is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free
By Wednesday Martin
Review by Christian Perring on Tue, Sep 25th 2018.
Untrue  by Wednesday MartinWe are familiar with the high rate of infidelity in the US, and it's easy to understand it using the stereotype of men wanting sex and women wanting security and intimacy. Wednesday Martin argues against this stereotype, arguing that females in many primate species are motivated to engage in sex outside their main relationships for a variety of reasons. In this wide-ranging book she explores female initiation and engagement in infidelity, extra-marital sex, multiple partners, polyamory, and other forms of women's pursuing non-traditional relationships. She is not necessarily a proponent of alt
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Relax, It's Just Sex
Understanding Non-Possessive Intimate Relationships
By Leslie Spurr
Review by Hennie Weiss on Tue, Mar 13th 2018.
In Relax, It's Just Sex: Understanding Non-Possessive Intimate Relationships, Leslie Spurr, relationship therapist, introduces the reader to so called non-possessive relationships, in which mostly married couples decide to have sexual relations with other people while maintaining their own relationship. As such these couples are non sexually exclusive, but maintain most other features of "traditional" relationships or marriages. Spurr first discusses the differences between exclusive sexual relationships between two people and the non-possessive relationships. Even though both types of relati
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Relax, It's Just Sex by Leslie Spurr

Against Marriage
An Egalitarian Defense of the Marriage-Free State
By Clare Chambers
Review by Robert Scott Stewart, Ph.D. on Tue, Feb 6th 2018.
Against Marriage by Clare Chambers Marriage has been the contested subject of a great deal of debate in the recent culture wars, which pits conservative, and often religious believers against progressive, and often liberal, egalitarian and feminist thinkers. Much of this debate recently has surrounded the issue of who should be allowed to marry with one side claiming that only the traditional view of marriage between one man and one woman should be allowed and recognized by the state. The other side claims, however, that we need to move toward some sort of 'marriage equality' and that the state should recognize a broader range
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Overcoming Your Difficult Family
8 Skills for Thriving in Any Family Situation
By Eric Maisel
Review by Christian Perring on Tue, Jan 23rd 2018.
Eric Maisel is a prolific author with over 50 books to his name. He is a psychotherapist whose work focuses a lot on creativity and avoid medical approaches to mental disorders. This book is about coping with "difficult families" and in Part II of the book he sets out 10 different varieties ·         Sad and anxious ·         Loveless and distant ·         Warring and divided ·         Bullying, aggressiv
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Overcoming Your Difficult Family by Eric Maisel

Against Marriage
An Egalitarian Defense of the Marriage-Free State
By Clare Chambers
Review by Hennie Weiss on Tue, Jan 16th 2018.
Against Marriage by Clare Chambers   In Against Marriage: An Egalitarian Defence of the Marriage-Free State, Clare Chambers puts together a well thought out rejection of state recognized marriage based on the notion that such marriages are gendered and heterosexual in nature while undermining liberty and equality. According to Chambers, this book is not for the socially conservative, the religious fundamentalists and the non-egalitarian libertarians, and Chambers makes that clear from the very beginning. Chambers states that the book is also a critique of traditional marriage, a rejection of state-recognized marria
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The Philosophical Parent
Asking the Hard Questions About Having and Raising Children
By Jean Kazez
Review by Samuel LeBlanc on Tue, Jan 2nd 2018.
Being a parent is the best and worst thing that can happen. Or, as Anne Lamott, mother of Sam, is quoted in Kazez's The Philosopher Parent, "I feel that he has completely ruined my life, because I just didn't used to care so much" (177). To this, add that there are more than 7 billion of us on the planet and you have a book that is easy and impossible to write. Parenthood is inherently social, so much so, that talking about it can be nauseating. Everyone has an opinion on every conceivable subject about what should--and shouldn't--be done. But asking thoughtful questions is a refreshing exerci
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The Philosophical Parent by Jean Kazez

The State of Affairs
Rethinking Infidelity
By Esther Perel
Review by Christian Perring on Tue, Nov 28th 2017.
The State of Affairs by Esther PerelEsther Perel takes an inquisitive and thoughtful approach to infidelity. She has a recent TED talk that summarizes many of her main themes. As a therapist, she has specialized in couples and individuals who are struggling with problems arising from infidelity.  She takes a subtle approach aiming to understand why people have affairs even when they are in love with their partners or when they are taking huge risks by doing so. People even lie about affairs when they have open relationships. Her book explores many aspects of infidelity in a non-judgmental way, and although the chapters have
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The Reflective Parent
How to Do Less and Relate More with Your Kids
By Regina Pally
Review by Hennie Weiss on Tue, Nov 7th 2017.
The Reflective Parent: How to Do Less and Relate More with Your Kids, by Regina Pally, takes the perspective of how to parent using reflective parenting, which as Pally describes it , is relationship based, and focuses on the mental skill of understanding what is going on inside the mind of a child, by listening, being open, and by also looking inside oneself, taking a step back from jumping to conclusions while attempting to be non-judgmental. Pally starts out with describing reflective parenting, and the 10 principles of the system. At the same time, Pally assures her readers that parenting
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The Reflective Parent by Regina Pally

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